At this point complying with the solution of Quran (the book of life) and starting the process of devotion relieve us from the problem.
How many of the fathers waiting in front of the delivery room can say what Imran's wife said: "O my Sustainer! Behold, unto Thee do I vow (The child) that is in, my womb, to be devoted to Thy service. Accept it, then, from me."
How can the flag of Islam rise if the parents with several children cannot devote even one of them in His way and reproach their children when they talk about shahadah?